Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Just A Question....."Does Being A DBSK Fan Have An Age Limit?"

I just wanted to ask this question... because someone asked me why I'm a DBSK fan since I'm already 29 years, married, with 2 kids.This person said that I was just wasting my time and I wasn't really supposed to be doing what only teenagers do. WHAT'S WRONG? Does being a fan have an age limit? I think this is some sort of discrimination, don't you think. If this person wasn't my friend, I would have just blown out of proportion. What's wrong if I'm a DBSK fan? I'm not doing anybody any harm , am I? Even if I am obsessed with downloading and posting their videos, songs and pictures, what's wrong with that? I don't neglect any duties or responsibilities that I have.Even my husband indulges my hobby with buying me an IPOD , he even said that so I can put all my videos, songs and pictures in it. He knows that I'm a DBSK fan and he doesn't have any objection. Why is it there are so many people that just can't stop ridiculing other people just because they don't share the same interests that they have. Do you also think that I'm already too old to be a DBSK fan? And how do you think I should react to these kind of people. I sometimes feel ashamed, and think that maybe they are right. Am I really too old? Please share your thoughts. Thanks.
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  1. kherojaejin D재December 12, 2007 at 10:32 PM

    i think its not wrong...
    there a lot of people older than u like tvxq...
    everybody hav their interest right...
    even man older than u luv tvxq...

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  2. The Sweet Treat OnlineDecember 12, 2007 at 10:38 PM

    I don't see anything wrong with that. Age is nothing but a number. Keep your heart young. ^_^

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  3. kherojaejin D재December 12, 2007 at 10:43 PM

    i agree with thesweettreat...

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  4. Cerise ChuaDecember 13, 2007 at 8:42 AM

    ur hubby is sweet =D

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  5. chibi liyanaDecember 13, 2007 at 11:07 PM

    there's nothing wrong for older age to like them..
    hey, even grandma like them..so what??
    that's mean they are likeable by all age not teenagers..
    isn't that good??
    well, i can't understand other people..but lol,why don't you ask them back..
    is it wrong to younger woman liking older man??
    and younger man liking older woman??
    if they say yes..then they really care about age issue..>_<
    but that's a trend now to younger guy liking older men..
    so don't worry bout their thought..
    just ignore them..keep your faith to dbsk!!

    puhaa...at last can release my anger that i keep in my heart...
    coz my friends also said like that to me...but in different way..
    they asking me.."why you like a younger guy??"
    but i'm only 15...you shouldn't say i like younger guy..>_<
    i like who are talented in my eyes..
    ahh..ignore my crap!!

    anyway, your husband so supportive..^_^
    keep supporting dbsk!!>_<

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  6. nab harDecember 13, 2007 at 11:23 PM

    yeah sometimes things like this happen even me, some of my friends who don't share same interest ask me things like these which always make me pissed~ Everybody have their own personal interest.. we can't blame or judge about their likeness.. So if me, the thing I used to do when people doing this to me. I just talk to them nicely but in a very serious tone that this things are unpredictable.. People have their own uniqueness to like something or not..You're not really old to like someone.. and being understanding is the most important in life.. and to your friend, please act mature and give some possible reasons to judge on our likings or not.. Just being married and having kids doesn't mean we cannot have some fun in our life.. and we're here to support you!

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  7. Elaine EmerhelienaDecember 13, 2007 at 11:39 PM

    Thanks nabulique and greenstar317. Thanks for being such nice friends. People are really judgmental on other people, that's why I just stay away from people like that. Even if they are my friends I just try to act cool and simply try to distance myself from them. It's only been recently that I've been active here in multiply so I don't actually have anyone to talk to regarding DBSK stuffs. But now I'm glad that I have new acquaintances like all of you. I'm glad that I found other DBSK fans that don't criticize by age or by status. It's really great...to have new friends that have the same interest that I have. Thanks again. Hope to chat with you again.

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  8. Elaine EmerhelienaDecember 14, 2007 at 2:12 AM

    Thanks herojunsu, sidayung and thesweettreat. You're all so very nice.

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  9. Cerise ChuaDecember 14, 2007 at 4:24 AM

    Dont worry Elaine, Cassiopeain support each other =D

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  10. Elaine EmerhelienaDecember 14, 2007 at 4:19 PM

    Thanks sidayung. Hope to be a a good friend to you too. I'm glad to be a Cassiopeian.

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  11. chibi liyanaDecember 14, 2007 at 5:39 PM

    wahh..don't worry about that elaine~~ like what sidayung say...cassiopeians will support each other!!>_<

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  12. Elaine EmerhelienaDecember 14, 2007 at 7:06 PM

    Thanks again greenstar.

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  13. ailend eruDecember 14, 2007 at 8:49 PM

    no, of course not... age is too shallow to be a limit between tvxq fans XD~

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  14. Elaine EmerhelienaDecember 14, 2007 at 9:54 PM

    You're right ailend...age is not an issue. It's just that some people make it such a big issue and just makes a big fuss over it. Unluckily I've encountered some of them.

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  15. ailend eruDecember 14, 2007 at 11:55 PM

    hopefully i will not encounter people like that D:

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  16. Cerise ChuaDecember 15, 2007 at 12:43 AM

    Cassiopeia Hwaiting!

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  17. Elaine EmerhelienaDecember 22, 2007 at 7:18 PM

    Well, I just talked to the person I was pertaining to and he was so frustrating. He basically was very casual about saying that chatting on line with other DBSK fans was just a waste of time. And that I was certainly crazy for doing so. I wanted to shouted at him and say " Are you really my friend or what? ". He was totally rude. Well, I just wanted to get that out of my chest. I am really already up to my head with his making fun of my multiply site. I am already contemplating if whether I should stop communicating with him online permanently or just avoid him for the moment. What do you think?

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  18. Cerise ChuaDecember 22, 2007 at 8:33 PM

    let things cool off 1st i guess
    then when you think the time is rite...
    tell him how you feel
    if he's really a friend, he'd probably understand after that
    ^^

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  19. Elaine EmerhelienaDecember 22, 2007 at 11:46 PM

    Thanks for the advice. But with his personality, he is always thinking that everything he says is right. He is nice and all, but he's too invasive with one's personal space or a person's privacy. He's too picky with things and I think he has a " I am the world " complex. He thinks that he's so mature and all. Well, I'll try to cool off my temper first. Then I'll try to talk to him in a more serious tone. Maybe then he'll understand that I am not joking with him anymore. Thanks again sidayung.

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  20. Cerise ChuaDecember 23, 2007 at 12:07 AM

    no prob, glad to be of help
    ^^

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  21. Daniaa YazidJanuary 27, 2008 at 5:08 AM

    Well. I guess I was once in the same situation, but a bit different, with a different boyband. People laugh at me - in real life, in my everyday life - for obsessing over D2B. I'm not addicted to them, I think. I just stick with them faithfully. I'm VERY faithful, online or offline.

    The thing is, being someone's fan is not a bad thing. It just shows you're able to care for people you don't know, and emerge a new person from all the love you pour to them, the groups you idol.

    It doesn't matter what age, does it?

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